I agree with the posts here. "Bore Axis" does contribute, but it is quite overrated. Unless the hand sits very low and/or the barrel sits high, then you will have appreciably more felt recoil as a "flip", but most high quality firearms are so well designed, it's not an issue. The weight of the slide vs the springs (reciprocating mass) and the height of the rails all contribute. And regarding the weight of the slide goes, that is also related to how that compares to the weight of the frame. I've heard of people selling quality guns because they had "too much recoil", only to shoot the same gun and have very little. There is an actual equation for how much a gun recoils as a total "recoil factor". The recoil is the SAME on a gun with a certain weight vs the velocity and weight of the bullet, but how it is felt is the issue. This is why GRIP is such an issue.
vgu = {(mp • vp) + ( mc • vc)} / mgu • 7000 → Etgu = mgu • vgu2 / 2 • gc
Where:
Etgu is the recoil energy expressed in foot-pounds (ft·lb).
mgu is the weight of the gun expressed in pounds (lb).
mp is the weight of the bullet expressed in grains (gr).
mc is the weight of the powder charge expressed in grains (gr).
vgu is the total forward velocity of the gun expressed in feet per second (ft/s).
vp is the velocity of the bullet expressed in feet per second (ft/s).
vc is the velocity of the powder charge expressed in feet per second (ft/s).
gc is the dimensional constant and is the numeral coefficient of 32.1739.
7000 is the conversion factor to set the equation equal to pounds.
HK p30 has a factor of: 5.23 ft-lb
HK VP9 has a factor of: 5.39
Glock 19 has a factor of: 6.54
Sig p226 has a factor of: 4.41
CZ P-01 has a factor of: 5.02
CZ SP-01 has a factor of: 3.68
M&P Shield has a factor of: 6.95
Sig p220 in .45ACP has a factor of: 8.29
This shows recoil is not that big of an issue for 9mm. The biggest difference in power factor between all these guns is 138,000 (shield) and 144,000 (SP-01).
Which shows 9mm ammo is pretty effective from all barrel lengths.