Not to be a jerk, but we're kind of getting into a circular discussion.
It's a hard sell to say .40 S&W will outlive/outperform/be as equally relevant to the caliber in use by the U.S. Military, NATO, FBI, has been in use since 1902, has 4 different calibers that use the same projectiles (.357 Magnum, .38 SPL, 9mm, and .380), and pretty much all modern SMG's are chambered in, and is also probably the best selling center fire pistol cartridge.
That's not even mentioning the ballistic advantages I mentioned 5-6 pages ago.
You like 40 S&W for your purposes; that's great. I just don't know how much more there is to say about it.