I want to try out a 43 but they still haven't been added to the MD state handgun roster. It was supposed to happen recently, but was somehow "overlooked." With the way things work here, it will probably be another two months before they show up on retail shelves.
That said I recently ran a box through a G42 and really loved the little thing.
For those who have shot both, how much more noticeable is the recoil in the G43? I really enjoyed shooting the G42 and my wife preferred it to my G19 (partly because of its thinner grip and lighter weight). As much as I'm tempted to wait for 9mm over .380, I'm concerned the extra recoil might push the envelope past her point of comfort.