LOL, yeah Victoria. Home of the retired and politically correct.
I won't bore everyone with specifics, but the first happened at an apartment in a nice quiet neighborhood, the second at our first house, again in a nice quiet neighborhood. 1st was a byproduct of a neighbors domestic dispute. The second, again a neighbor, with a heavy dose of habitual drug use and mental illness thrown in.
No matter what area you live in you can't pick your neighbors. I live in an even nicer neighborhood now, but being surrounded by 4000sqft houses doesn't insure my neighbors aren't batshit crazy.
Regarding the OP's original topic, I was asleep during both attempts, and fully awake instantly.