I didn't really get the pride/passion thing until I was able to spend some time talking guns and shooting with an uncle of mine who was an old IPSC shooter. Every gun he had was gone over by a gunsmith and set up exactly how he wanted it. That uncle passed away last year and left me his guns, when I went to pick everything up (after driving from TX to IN) I ended up spending an entire day getting loaded up, one because I vastly underestimated the amount of reloading components, but mainly because I would get distracted when I would find a file folder with printed out emails between him and a gunsmith going back and forth over every little detail on some build that he was doing. Fast forward a little bit, and I haven't shot any of my Glocks in months and have just started carrying a CZ 75BD that I've completely set up the way I want it , well except of sights - but I'm having CZC mill some to my specs so hopefully that won't take too long.
The experience changed my outlook from the idea that out of the box was fine to enjoying figuring out exactly what I want and then putting that together. The CZ project was extremely rewarding for me, and I don't think I would have done it without having spent those hours in the reloading room and at the range with my uncle listening to the how and why he had his guns set up.