You can accomplish that with a NY1 trigger spring/3.5# connector combo. Definitely not DA revolver-like, and more difficult to shoot those one-hole slow fire groups with… but certainly a hedge against "trigger checking".
Its all relative. Like you, my primary focus these days is "will this arrangement (pistol, trigger, etc.) do well for concealed carry defensive purposes?" I have found that, so far, I cannot have my cake and eat it too. So, I compromise…
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