Originally Posted by
RevolverRob
I cannot give advice on joining the military. I considered the Marine Corps at the end of my undergraduate days, but chose my wife instead. I think your intentions are highly honorable, but I hope you recognize that you are not alone in making this decision and that your future wife and marriage may be compromised by pursuing your dream. I love pursuing dreams, I think everyone should, if possible. Pursuing your dreams is hard, under the best of circumstances. Maybe I am wrong, but based on many of the responses here, you're proposing to make it harder, not easier. And not only are you proposing to do it the hard way, you are potentially involving a partner in the mix.
I guess my point is, don't make it harder, by sacrificing your hard fought advantages (degree). It may be your dream to have the "blue collar" style work. I understand, I am the son of a blue collar man, I drove a work truck everyday from 16-21 and periodically from 21-25 during my undergrad days. Today, even though I sit behind a desk most days, I go find opportunities to get dirt under my nails (literally). I am not living my boyhood dream exactly, but I am living it mostly, and the compromises I made, let me have strong, healthy, relationships, with people I love. I compromised portions of my dream to have a dream life.
You have highly honorable intentions, but as the saying goes, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Whatever you do, I strongly recommend you find a solution that allows you to achieve as much of your dream as possible, without simultaneously compromising value of life. It is possible and several ways are described here, mainly those that have you seek a commission as an officer.
Best of luck!
-Rob