Originally Posted by
joshrunkle35
I'm not LE or a lawyer, so I can't speak to the legal side, but I can share my own personal experience:
I am getting married in May, and my fiancé's brother is severely bi-polar. I have dated my fiancé for about 3 years now, and, she lived with her brother for all of our relationship until about two weeks ago. So, I have seen him very, very regularly for about 3 years. I am good friends with him, and I love him and already consider him family, even though it won't be "official" until next year.
Understanding people who are bi-polar was very hard for me at first, as I knew very little about it in the beginning, and many aspects of life regarding mental illness made me very uneasy. When my fiancé and I started dating, the first very odd aspect of everything was that she and her family asked me to never bring a firearm inside of her house. This had little to do with their personal beliefs of firearms, and everything to do with her brother. This made me uneasy, as I am armed nearly at all other times, and it gave me the impression that he must be absolutely psychotic. Over the years, I took a lot of continuing education as a paramedic focusing on mental illnesses, and I was able to watch and interact with him and as we became much closer, understand his perspective.
The first thing that I have learned is that mental illnesses are still very poorly understood. Bi-Polar disorder may actually be 7 or 8 different, separate and distinct illnesses, yet, they are all lumped into the same category. So, it is really hard to say that one person who is mildly sad, not even quite depressed, should not be allowed to have a firearm, and separate that from the person who is off the wall, bat-$&@% crazy, because they may use the same term to distinguish between the two.
Secondly, the mental health profession really does not want to see all people with mental illnesses locked away, instead they hope that people with mental illnesses can be medicated to a point where they can function somewhat normally in society. Aside from a few years of balancing out the exact levels of those meds, many people with mental illnesses eventually can live a completely normal life when taking the medications. There are two problems that usually occur: the biggest one is that a person is completely fine for a year or two and then they wonder, "What if I don't need all of these medications anymore? What if I'm fine now?" And then they quit taking the medication for a while. Additionally, some medications have severe side effects, like making you sleep 16 hours every day. This causes issues with living a normal social life, creates new anxiety in the patient, and also leads to that first question of making them wonder if they can stop taking the meds.
Third, my personal experience with my soon to be brother in law, is that he is mildly socially awkward, but essentially completely normal when he takes his meds. However, if he purposefully or accidentally misses a medication, it causes severe problems. Typically, he is completely normal 360 days a year, suddenly severely depressed (like, call 911, he's gonna kill himself) one day a year, and suddenly outrageously manic, like bat-$&@% crazy, about 2-3 days a year. There is rarely much of an indication beforehand, and he is otherwise completely normal. He is never mildly depressed and never mildly manic. Usually, too much or too little of a drug is the culprit. Now, as far as CCW goes, he's not really interested in guns, and his family has such a lockdown, that they wouldn't let him have one. Despite the fact that he is completely normal 99% of the time, his family has a lockdown on all of his movements and when and where he goes, despite the fact that he's 28 years old. However, there is nothing to prevent him, legally speaking from buying a firearm or getting a CCW permit. The doctors have hope that people with the illness can interact normally in society if they take their meds, and the legislature wants to protect people from having their rights stripped away if they were accused of having an illness, but nothing was proven.
I would try to speak to the person's psychologist/psychiatrist and see what can be done. The doctor could fear that the person is a danger to the public, and then place them in an involuntary hold, which may bar them from having a firearm.