"Shooting The Bull" recently published an extensive roundup of gelatin tests covering virtually every available 380 defense load plus some FMJ. A careful reading of his results shows that there exists a bare handful of commercial loads at the very top end of the 380 performance curve which meet standards.
I would be comfortable carrying a G42 with any of the ~3 products which performed well. And this is coming from someone who standardized on hot 40SW loads (JHP @ 450+ ft-lb) back in the late 90s and is only now considering a switch to modern 9mm loads.